As the newly elected leader of the federal New Democratic Party (NDP), Avi Lewis finds himself navigating a complex political landscape while grappling with the recent loss of his father, Stephen Lewis. Just two days after Avi assumed leadership on March 29, Stephen passed away, leaving behind a legacy of political activism, diplomacy, and humanitarian work that profoundly shaped Canadian society. This Sunday, a public memorial at Toronto Metropolitan University will serve to honour Stephen’s remarkable career and the personal memories that his family cherishes.
A Father’s Guidance in a Time of Transition
In the lead-up to his election, Avi Lewis often sought counsel from his father, sharing the pressures and expectations that come with such a significant role. “I’m actually kind of nervous. I’m stressed. It’s a lot that’s coming up,” Avi confided during one of their weekly conversations. Stephen, who was battling cancer at the time, offered his son reassurance rooted in years of experience. “You don’t have to do anything that you haven’t been doing for months. Just keep it up. You’re doing great. Stay calm. Stay clear. You’ve got this,” he reminded Avi, evoking a sense of paternal comfort that transcended their years.
Avi, now 58, reflected on the profound connection he shared with Stephen, who was 88 at the time of his passing. “In that conversation, I felt like a kid being reassured by a parent,” he shared, highlighting the enduring bond despite the serious nature of their discussions.
Remembering a Multifaceted Life
The memorial service will feature tributes from key figures, including Manitoba Premier Wab Kinew and former Supreme Court Justice Rosalie Abella. Avi and his sisters, Ilana Landsberg-Lewis and Jenny Lewis, aim to present a more nuanced picture of their father, revealing aspects of his personality that may not have been widely known. “He was a very unusual person with many hidden talents,” Avi noted, recalling a rare moment when Stephen demonstrated his athletic prowess by throwing a perfect spiral football pass during a casual outing. “It was a shock. He never did it again. He never did it before that,” he added with a hint of nostalgia.
While Stephen Lewis was known for his significant contributions to politics and humanitarian causes, his family remembers a man who was also playful and adventurous. “He had a really silly streak, a truly delightful side of him. I think we want to share some of that to fill out the portrait,” said Avi, indicating a desire to celebrate Stephen’s life in its entirety, not just his public persona.
Balancing Grief with Public Life
For Avi, the memorial serves as a personal moment amidst the challenges of leading the NDP. The recent announcement regarding the departure of Alexandre Boulerice, the party’s sole MP from Quebec, adds to the pressure he faces in his new role. “It won’t be a political moment for me,” he stated, acknowledging the dual nature of the event. “We’re all just embarrassed about losing it emotionally in front of a group of people, and everybody knows it’s actually okay.”
As he prepares to share this poignant moment with his family and the public, Avi understands the importance of allowing oneself to grieve. “If you’re lucky, you just
