The world has lost a remarkable spirit with the passing of Matthew Higham, who died at the age of 79. A true maverick, Matthew’s life was an eclectic tapestry woven from diverse experiences—ranging from his youthful escapades in the antiques trade to a brief interlude with MI6. His indomitable spirit and passion for people left an indelible mark on everyone he encountered, making him a beloved figure in Norwich and beyond.
A Life of Adventure and Change
Matthew Higham was born in Holborn, London, to David, a literary agent, and Helen, a journalist. Raised in Hampstead, he navigated a childhood marked by undiagnosed dyslexia, relying on his natural charisma to entertain his peers. His early years ignited a political consciousness; he participated in marches and briefly aligned himself with the Communist Party of Great Britain. These formative experiences would shape a life characterised by both rebellion and curiosity.
At the tender age of 16, Matthew made a bold decision to marry his first wife, Kay, fleeing to Scotland to escape parental disapproval. This act of defiance set the tone for a life that would rarely conform to societal norms. After a colourful stint as a blacksmith and training at the E15 theatre school—where he crossed paths with notable figures like Mike Leigh—Matthew found himself in Berlin, where he served in an undisclosed capacity for MI6. His eclectic career trajectory continued with a spell selling knickers at Brixton market and learning to drive heavy goods vehicles for British Rail.
The Antiques Journey
In 1978, Matthew and his brother Ben co-founded St Giles European Transport in Norwich, focusing on the delicate task of transporting antiques. This venture provided Matthew with the freedom to indulge his passion for antique hunting, allowing him to roam across Europe, and eventually the US and China, in search of forgotten treasures. His keen eye for quality and history enabled him to uncover a wealth of worn artifacts, which he later sold to fellow dealers.
After the transport business closed its doors in 1983, Matthew took on a managerial role with antiques dealer Peter Howkins in Great Yarmouth. However, his entrepreneurial spirit could not be contained for long. In 1992, he established his own antiques business, specialising in country furniture and artefacts from regions such as the Czech Republic and France. For the last two decades, he operated retail spaces at Bayfield Hall in north Norfolk and the Post Room in Norwich, where his enthusiasm for antiquities shone brightly.
A Passion for People
What truly defined Matthew was not just his expertise in antiques but his zest for life and people. His magnetic energy drew individuals from all walks of life into his orbit. He engaged with everyone he met—sharing stories, offering advice, and sometimes sparking lively debates. His innate kindness and non-judgmental approach made him a confidant and friend to many, particularly those navigating their own struggles.
Matthew’s relationships were as varied as his career; he was married twice, had several partners, and fathered five children. He is survived by his second wife, Adina Levay, their son Felix, and his other children: Mark, Oliver, Gabriel, and Rose. His familial bonds, like his friendships, were marked by warmth and a sense of belonging.
Why it Matters
Matthew Higham’s life serves as a vivid reminder of the importance of authenticity and connection in an increasingly fragmented world. His refusal to conform to expectations, combined with his profound appreciation for the stories and struggles of others, has left a legacy that resonates beyond the antiques he cherished. In remembering Matthew, we celebrate not just a life filled with adventure but the enduring impact of kindness, curiosity, and the unyielding pursuit of one’s passions. His story is a testament to the richness of the human experience, urging us all to engage more fully with the world around us.
